Three days ago, she became distant and broke up with me. Apparently she wanted to get to know me more as a friend, which pretty much has meant "I want you out of my life". I don't know what to even say. It's crushed my entire weekend so far. Maybe I was too overbearing. Maybe I should have been less available. Maybe we should have stayed friends and never taken that risk.
It's times like this that make me wonder if I'll ever have another relationship where I'm not constantly worrying about losing attraction from the other side. Somebody to share my dreams. Somebody to give my fullest to support. Somebody that I can do almost anything with and explore life together. My first relationship was like that, but unfortunately shit circumstances made it fall apart. And now, I don't know whether it was luck of the draw with biology/psychology or a true connection, considering that I was never able to reconcile with ex #1. Is any successful long-term relationship more than biology/psychology?
Might as well play the hook up game until that person magically comes along again, but I don't even like having sex wth random people. Fuck me, right?
I like you man, so im gonna be real.
Stop getting attached to chicks, you're what, 18? 19? who gives a fuck at that age.
Let them know straight up you're not interested in anything serious and just have some fucking fun. They appreciate that shit. Trust me.
Being too forward and too keen is probably the biggest turn off.
I know you got this my nigga.