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#4574904 Why don't you have a Girlfriend Junkie?

Posted YVNG_CARL_YVNG on 10 April 2016 - 12:01 PM

all this motivational talk is pretty fuckin masturbatory. buncha grown men assuring each other they wont die irrelevant.


#4574418 Why don't you have a Girlfriend Junkie?

Posted FTRouslan on 08 April 2016 - 05:23 AM

View PostBuglamp, on 08 April 2016 - 02:27 AM, said:


Also, I've got that "I missed the boat" kind of hopelessness where I feel if were going to do something "significant" with my life, I should've already gotten started by now. I find myself thinking of times where opportunities were basically thrown at me and I dodged them so I also have a bit of shame and guilt over that - especially when it comes to teachers who put in extra effort.


It's not too late. Far from it. Don't feel bad for your past mistakes. Forgive yourself. Move on. Get moving.

It might be too late for you to become the youngest shitposter alive, but you certainly can reach for some goals like "yoga master" or "William Faulkner critic". Maybe one day you'll look back at this period as an important incubation for later successes. But you have to get moving. Opportunities build off of each other in an unpredictable way. You can't calculate your chances of long-term success from a certain path. You can only increase your odds.


#4574349 Why don't you have a Girlfriend Junkie?

Posted FTRouslan on 08 April 2016 - 01:09 AM

View PostBuglamp, on 06 April 2016 - 06:44 PM, said:

I have a long list of books

screw your long list of books. soon you'll be identifying yourself with the selection of books that you've picked to read. that's no good. you'll never read them at that rate.

let's take some small steps first. pick one book. a book that you want to read before you die. a book that you know, with some effort, that you can finish. a book that you'd be proud to tell other people that you've read. a book that you know will change your perspective a bit.

maybe you can get a calendar, set yourself a goal like "read 10-50 pages a day", and then track each day that you read by marking an X. see how many Xs you can mark off. Once you get the ball rolling, the positive reinforcement makes it hard to stop if you make it a serious commitment.

View PostBuglamp, on 06 April 2016 - 06:44 PM, said:

I've done the journal thing when I was in therapy, not sure how much it helped, at that time I think I lied to myself and/or was just less clear about what the hell my deal was.

What has been your current approach to journaling? Just writing down random thoughts? I use journaling to plan my day, plan the next day, keep track of goals, and to keep a consistent narrative.

My general goal of journaling is to be so engrossed into it that I can always say: this is what I have recently accomplished, this is what I plan on doing today, I will be working toward this goal in the future, and this is the big picture that motivates me.

Aimless/formless/intriguing thoughts are of secondary value. You can still incorporate that into your journaling, but if your main problem is keeping your identity "organized", then promoting more entropy is only going to make your problem worse.

It's hard to lose your identity when you're aware of the practical and sentimental reasons that define you as a person. It's hard to lose your identity when you're intimate with all of the small and large details that make you unique from me.

View PostBuglamp, on 06 April 2016 - 06:44 PM, said:

I actually offer myself a reasonable amount, the problem is I don't offer much to others and that limits how much I can offer myself since amusing yourself doesn't come with any social currency reward.

Is it socially currency that you're after? I'm confused why you're in this mess to begin with. If you had a lot to offer to yourself, you wouldn't need other people to remind yourself that you're unique.
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View PostBuglamp, on 06 April 2016 - 06:44 PM, said:

Anyway, thanks for the serious responses. I do have plans for therapy and possibly going to try some anti-depressants again. I was very anti-pharmaceutical last time I was in therapy, due to bad experiences when I was a teenager.

Good luck BL. I hope you tackle the problem through every single method that you can. Eat well. Get some exercise while you're at it, too. 30 minutes of exercise a day, several days a week, can do wonders to fight depression.

I ended up going through the same crisis when none of the video games I played were enjoyable anymore. I had to get off my ass and do something. I think it's a primal force that can't be overcome easily. You better make the most out of it..


#4569189 The "Funny Picture" thread

Posted Alcohoulix on 09 March 2016 - 09:01 AM

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#4572405 Why don't you have a Girlfriend Junkie?

Posted Breadstick on 31 March 2016 - 10:33 AM

View PostBreadstick, on 20 March 2016 - 06:46 PM, said:

tfw no gf

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i got her number lol

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#4570734 Why don't you have a Girlfriend Junkie?

Posted Breadstick on 20 March 2016 - 06:46 PM

tfw no gf

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#4551864 Why don't you have a Girlfriend Junkie?

Posted pharrelle on 10 December 2015 - 01:59 AM

Reposting this from January since the challenge is almost over.

- How is it going Sadboys?
- Have you already found the one to spend christmas eve with this year?
- How hopeful are you of having someone to kiss on new year eve?


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If you're still single. Reflect aswell.
  • Was this a good year for dating? What was your best experience in 2015. What was your worst?
  • Any important things you did learn this year which you will take into the new year?
  • Did you come out of your shell and were able to get the number of that 9/10 you're always staring at in the bus.
  • Or did you finally confess and broke out of the friendzone?
  • If you're thinking about your 2015 Adventures, any specific song comes to mind?
My best 2015 related Experience has to be the week I'd spent with a blonde in a Hotel here in the Dominican Republic when I just got here. She was there visiting a friend that worked at the resort. She also told me that she was a Virign before ( 19 ) and just wanted to get it over with. So I pretty much tried to give her the best possible experience and be as selfless as possible so that she gets connects having sex with positive emotions. I did want her to feel as comfortable as possible while taking her fear bit by bit.

She was a bombshell (the reason she stayed virign so long was because of health reasons) and every night we did spend she got more confident and I got to admit that the sex was pretty fucking good.
By Night 7 I went out of my way to prepare the room with roses (which were really fucking hard to get in the caribbean) and candles and we spent the last night having the best sex to slow rock balads.

I know its really fucking tacky. And you're absolutely right. But hey common, she was new at this so tacky was cool. And I wanted to show her that she wasn't just some quick fuck but an memory which I'll treasure. So I don't regret doint it.

Also she loved it, so fuck off.

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Not long after that I met the girl I'm still with.

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Overall I'm pretty happy with 2015. Often forced myself out of my comfort zone and magical things did happen everytime I did.
I still get sweaty hands and get nervous when talking to beautiful girls tho. But I don't mind it as much as I used to.


Time to reflect and share sadboys. / :heart: //


#4551303 [IRL] Official OT IRL Picture's

Posted glonglon on 09 December 2015 - 07:43 AM

View PostFTRouslan, on 09 December 2015 - 01:10 AM, said:

imagine if reliuna lived in 900 AD as a Viking

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#4550136 What the flying fuck is wrong with Americans and black friday

Posted YVNG_CARL_YVNG on 06 December 2015 - 04:20 PM

View PostFTRouslan, on 06 December 2015 - 03:31 AM, said:

jeez listen to you "America and Europe are different" No shit, but what exactly is different? What relevant details between two wealthy regions create such a disparity in immigrant assimilation?

I'm talking about historically. Desi people in Britain, Turkish people in Germany, Arab/African people in Sweden, etc.

Had these people migrated to the United States, they would have been indistinguishable from other Americans, save some cultural traditions, within a generation. I'm pretty sure immigrants in Europe are seen and treated as second-class citizens. No wonder many of them refuse to let go of sharia law.

no offense here good friend but please stop acting like you know jack about turkish people migrating into Germany.

if anything they are integrated just as good as in the states, with the exception of areas like Berlin Neuk├Âlln who have have had a history of poverty and crime anyway.

there's plenty of turkish doctors, scientists, lawyers and professors. not like that means anything anyway.

the whole debate between the two of you is rather retarded and thaya is right to some extent when he mentions that it is nonsensical to directly compare america to europe.

I feel like I'm reading one of those "why didn't africa develop civilizations like europe did" stormnigger threads and it's actually making me angry.

america was founded as a country of immigrants. germany is known in entire europe for being an "einwanderungsland"; literally translates to "immigration country".

both countries deal with immigration far better than almost every other nation on earth. there are countless other positive examples like sweden, norway et cetera.

of course there's also bad ones. france comes to my mind, who not only has a growing racist party but real ghetto areas, ukraine with their proto-fascist government, russia where in some areas they'll just beat the shit out of you because you're black, many more come to my mind.

but it's not like america doesn't have negative examples. I don't think I need to go into detail about this, I'm sure you're far more knowledgeable in this area, so I will not even attempt.

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I'm pretty sure immigrants in Europe are seen and treated as second-class citizens. No wonder many of them refuse to let go of sharia law.

I really hope you are not being serious with this, because this is a gross generalization and not true at all. sorry for being so blunt, but I honestly can't fucking grasp how you believe in this "sharia law" thing, outside of great britain (fuck bongs) this is not an issue whatsoever, it's a literal meme blown up by the media.

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Imagine, in an alternate universe, Angela Merkel as a Sunni Muslim of Turkish descent who is seen by Germans as the nation's second Bismarck. Sounds completely alien to you, doesn't it? I wonder why.


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cem would like to have a word with you. he was the leader of the green party, the third biggest party in the parliament and had our social democrats not fucked up and lost most of their votes he could've realistically been our vice chancellor.

one thing I really feel the need to adress: after multiple American interventions in the middle east, after completely destabilizing their governments, supplying literal terrorists with weaponry, reheating ethnic conflicts and breeding fear and resentment against the western world syria is now in a catastrophic state. who is taking in all these syrian refugees? it's definitely not America and Britain.

friendly reminder it's going to be close to two million refugees that came to germany in a few months and it has only been a year. keep in mind that we only have a population of about 80 mil people. it is not only unfair, but flat out wrong to say europe in general does not welcome immigrants, does not treat immigrants well or considers them "second class citiziens"-

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munich, central train station. people really are doing their best to help all they can. I don't give a fuck if they do it to brag about it on social media or out of pure altruism, fact is there is a real graspable movement in our population of people that embrace immigration.

it honestly kind of baffles me to hear something like this from a person like you. you're considerate and well-informed, what's going on? is this some kind of elaborate joke i'm not in?

tl;dr: it's pointless and it's stupid, praise merkel


#4548378 The biggest problem with WoW

Posted Saikx on 03 December 2015 - 01:12 PM

The addition of Group-/Raidfinder and the removal of Arena-Teams. Guilds/Arena-Teams were what made me resubscribe so many times, they were forged when players had to overcome adversity together. Today, there is no adversity, everyone can do whatever they please on their own, just join level 25 "social" guild to get all the perks, mute alle the retards in guild chat and never let other people bother you again or just group find 2 people for the next fotm comp, play some games if it doesn't work out just ditch them, they're random strangers to you anyways. There is literally no obligation to interact with people properly anymore in a fucking MMORPG.

Might aswell make WoW a singleplayer game for PS4 and Xbox.


R.I.P


Thoughts?


#4548156 The "Funny Picture" thread

Posted FTRouslan on 03 December 2015 - 12:50 AM

View PostBrian_Emo, on 02 December 2015 - 09:51 PM, said:

meth is one hell of a drug

ever met a meth junk? or even someone who used to do it? they're fucking spastics, even years after

it can't be that bad. they can still handle moderating arena junkies, provided you give them a little patience


#4548021 The "Funny Picture" thread

Posted Lloix on 02 December 2015 - 10:04 PM




#4547508 What the flying fuck is wrong with Americans and black friday

Posted Twaenkz on 02 December 2015 - 01:57 AM

Srsly, Educate me, why are you such an uncivilized continent.
Watching all these black friday vids, holy fuck im cringing so hard.

Fucking grown aldults shoving down kids too get that sweet juice compressor.
Tackling elderly people to get that electric foot bath.
Dont get me started on that land whales that raid victorias secret....top kek

I cant fucking watch it without feeling somewhat disturbed by the fact that people are that fucking mentally disabled.

Jesus christ, honestly Im not gonna say EU is perfect and blessed, but Americans man... u niggas cray


#4546809 The "Funny Picture" thread

Posted Alcohoulix on 30 November 2015 - 05:06 PM

Finally some quality posts guys. Keep it up.

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#4546434 The "Funny Picture" thread

Posted Reliuna on 29 November 2015 - 03:15 PM

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