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#4563138 Why don't you have a Girlfriend Junkie?

Posted Forumz on 01 February 2016 - 06:55 PM

Hell I'd settle for an even smaller loan of 500.000

It's not much but it'll get me started ya feel?


#4163968 video games have ruined my life

Posted Neitey on 07 July 2014 - 03:41 PM

Syke "0 laughs in 10 years of posting" is here to alpha

View PostSykeasaurus, on 07 July 2014 - 03:21 PM, said:

you guys just spent like 5 pages or something arguing about jerking off and porn.

i'm amazed how lame this thread is

Your post about how lame the thread is turned out lamer than the thread itself.


#4562910 What would the internet be like without trolls?

Posted Twaenkz on 31 January 2016 - 10:17 PM

View PostFTRouslan, on 31 January 2016 - 10:04 PM, said:

Im assuming that he never finished

Handjob and didnt repay the favor ;-[


#4562895 What would the internet be like without trolls?

Posted Breadstick on 31 January 2016 - 08:12 PM

none of us are really virgins because life fucks us all.. :eek: :eek: :eek:


#4562421 [IRL] Official OT IRL Picture's

Posted pharrelle on 28 January 2016 - 04:46 PM

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Your Resting face makes you look like you're pissed off, angry or just an asshole - who can relate?


#4556319 The "Funny Picture" thread

Posted Reliuna on 20 December 2015 - 08:43 PM




#4552170 Why don't you have a Girlfriend Junkie?

Posted pharrelle on 10 December 2015 - 05:32 PM

View PostBrian_Emo, on 10 December 2015 - 12:33 PM, said:

this is so fucking cute. especially the fact that you made such a big effort just so that her first time would be memorable and positive. you're the man, man.

Thanks man, but this post wasn't about braggin but more about encouraging reflection.

Maybe I should share negative experiences in dating which I made this year, so this doesn't look so much like a bragging sheet.

Dating in a 3rd world country isn't easy. When I go out and meet girls - while looking latin and being fluent in spanish I do have an accent so people notice pretty quick that I atleast grew up somewhere else. So by then the interested shifts from my personality to 'how can I take the most possibly advantage of him'.

While it's just as expected that you pay for things in the western world - it's not as bad as it is here. I had a few nights of meeting pretty girls, they wanting to go to another club with you and ordering shit after shit while expecting you to pay for everything. While not even having any of the things they ordered. It's an genuinely accepted fact that with her being as pretty as she is - she deserves all these things and you should feel required to give them to her eventhough you may only know her for about half an hour.

Girls literally won't talk to you until you paid a drink for them and their friends. It's to a degree that its well established that by the time she is your girlfriend she outright just will ask for blank cash. If you're broke don't even bother talking to girls. The first night I was out with my cousin and uncle I did approach girls as usual and while I was sure that they had an good time because of the reactions that I got. My uncle later told me that he had to go and pay for their drinks while they did talk to me, because 'that's something you just can't do' as in enganging and talking to girls before investing (related to the here usual wages) a 3day Paycheck just so they will even bother with you.

There is even an term in spanish for women like that which is " Chapiadora " which pretty much translates to Golddigger but while Golddigger carries an negative stigma in the states, girls pride themselves of being able to cash out on as many as possible guys to being able to afford continuing a lifestyle the obviously wouldn't normally be able to hold on to.

It's either you pay for whatever she demands or she will lose interest and move on, which she can afford because since this is so globally accepted she always will have 3 guys handy that will pick her up anywhere she is. This had been very frustrating at times.
And many of my friends just can't "afford" to date anymore because of that. Me having an somewhat stable background, wearing designer clothes, living alone in a bachelor condo with an whirpool, the fridge always filled with expensive rum and goods I kinda get  "green light" when it comes to these kind of women. But by now if anything I'm repelled by this kind of state of mind and the behaviour which comes with it.

Many of you surely heard about beautiful young women being all over white tourists as long as they're waving their passport at them. But these times are atleast to a degree over, the more you look foreign the more they justify diggin on you. They will always go for an older, fat man that showers them in money than some fun but broke student of their own age.

My father is the best example. He is 59 years old  about 5'5 ft tall and fat, almost bald but has still some white hair left.
But is some well known architect in the country that works for the goverment so hes pretty paid. He goes out 5 times a week with 4-5 Girls at the same time all with ages ranging from 18 to 21. But they don't mind because he gives them a lifestyle they wouldn't be able to live otherwise and buys them expensive gifts such as scooters or pays for oversee trips. Funny thing is one 18 year old got to be a somewhat good friend of mine after she was done being one of my dads nymphs.

On some level I can't even blame the girls who do this because they know just as well in what kind of country they're living and how their future will look like living here. So if anything they have an limited amount of time in which rich old man desire them, so they're trying to build the base for a better future for themselves and their offspring. Because let's face it their beauty is all they have so they're making the most of it. Even if this means giving yourself up to men which can provide you with this better life they're chasing.

It is still somewhat disappointing to see that it has come to this, and like I said I can't blame my friends if they tell me that they can't afford dating because of the difficult financial situation it will put them in. So they just gave up on meeting girls when going out on the weekends.

I'm still not entirely sure how I feel about this. If I should judge or I should feel sorry for them being in that situation. But then again they choose the easy way out instead of actually trying to make it out by working hard and putting some actual effort in your education.

But I guess it's always easy to judge if you never walked a mile in their shoes.

Overall this realization has probably to be my most negative experience I did regarding dating this year.
If anything because it has been so disappointingly disillusioning .


#4550199 What the flying fuck is wrong with Americans and black friday

Posted YVNG_CARL_YVNG on 06 December 2015 - 06:20 PM

I don't have a gripe with most of your post - I actually agree, just picking apart some sentiments that I don't feel


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However, the most common arguments that you hear today are based off of xenophobic, nativist sentiment, not any pragmatic examples, and this is a very common narrative espoused by your average European. These arguments don't exist in a vacuum. I wonder where did they come from?

I wonder if you'll hear any Swedish people thinking to themselves "within a generation, these Somalian immigrants will be just as Swedish as I am, and I will be happy to accept them with open arms now and in the future". Because that's the matter-of-fact of what will happen in the US. And it's not like US doesn't have xenophobic sentiment either. But the key difference is that xenophobic attitudes disappear in the US when the culture integrates into the American culture.

to some extent you are guilty of what you accuse others of. you still see "cultures" as something holistic, concluded. that view is antique and needs to go.

kebap is german (the variant with bread was literally invented here). islam is a part of germany. chicken tikka is british. carbonara is american. quite literally. you cannot say "x is clearly italian/turkish/german culture" unless those "cultures" have lived in complete segregation from the rest of the world. there is no reason to say islam is part of turkish "culture", it is completely arbitrary. islam has been a part of europe even before the invasion of spain. islamic scholars preserved writings of platon and aristotle that were lost in europe because we destroyed them. the idea of "virtues", one of the most fundamental cornerstornes of christian thought is derived completely from aristotle. our "western culture" only exists thanks to these islamic scholars, since it was founded on greek philosophy, which in turn inspired our judeo-christian set of values. almost all of our inventions were brought upon by the scientific method - once again a child of aristotle. this is just as an example. there are so many other factors: trade, horse taming, hospitals, universities - all derived from "the islamic world", "the orient", "arabs". the very second "cultures" interact with each other they are no more secluded.


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In the US, many Americans used to be prejudiced against Irish, Italians, Poles, Catholic Germans, Greeks, Russians, etc. Quotas were enacted. Southern and Eastern Europeans were not viewed as “white”. The KKK swelled to its greatest numbers ever in the 1920s. Within two decades, nobody was thinking like that. The descendants of these immigrants fought like any American, thinking as if they were Americans, in the greatest war of all time.

For a long period of time, nobody had any “real” case to persuade other people that Irish people were not Americans, despite their Catholicness in a Protestant country, unless you’re literally a fucking retard. In Germany, despite the integration of Turkish people into Germany, there is still a gigantic cultural divide and a very large vocal presence that argues that descendants of Turkish immigrants aren’t German that fight to keep the whiteness of German culture.

what you are constructing here is a very real distinction: "we" (the western, civilized world) and "they" (the "orient", the "aliens", the others, the one's in need of being "civilized" by us superior westerners). I will not deny that this mentality is still prevalent in europe, instead I will argue that it is also prevalent in america, with one gigantic difference: americans often accept people that have lived there as "we" after some time passes, which europe mostly has not. I'm definitely willing to admit that - this is the final step of "inclusion" and perhaps the truest form of integration and adaption, from both sides of course.

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You can tell me all about how there is a growing movement of Europeans that wishes to see immigration happen, but there’s also a growing movement of Europeans that wants to see them all gone, or dead.

they are a fringe group in germany, but very big in france, ukraine, poland and many other countries. true.

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And beyond all of that—even the most “pro-immigrant” of Europeans tend to still hold subtly racist views that prevent cultural exchange and assimilation. And that’s the problem that will continuously fuel controversy for not only the present, but also the next few decades.

very much true (also really sad).

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Because the attitude is “come here, but keep to yourself”. The fact that Turkish immigrants have been able to cultivate a positive influence in Germany is sheer luck given trends elsewhere on the continent.

I can't find myself agreeing with this statement. it's not luck at all, it is both sides making an active effort. turkish people are seen as a part of germany now, they're not "turkish" anymore.

anecdotal evidence time: I have a lot of good friends that are of turkish descent (2nd generation). whenever they're asked what their nationality is they'll just reply "german" and look at you weird. of course they're still in touch with their heritage and their community, the family in turkey, but they feel as a part of germany probably more than I do.

it'll take decades for syrians to be accepted (and accept themselves) the same way, but it'll happen.


#4551765 What the flying fuck is wrong with Americans and black friday

Posted Thaya on 09 December 2015 - 08:54 PM

lloix is a moron


#4551636 The "Funny Picture" thread

Posted Reliuna on 09 December 2015 - 04:13 PM




#4551303 [IRL] Official OT IRL Picture's

Posted glonglon on 09 December 2015 - 07:43 AM

View PostFTRouslan, on 09 December 2015 - 01:10 AM, said:

imagine if reliuna lived in 900 AD as a Viking

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#4550352 [IRL] Official OT IRL Picture's

Posted glonglon on 07 December 2015 - 07:55 AM

View PostReliuna, on 06 December 2015 - 07:00 AM, said:

pAArty

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I wonder why your friend is not smiling on this pic. Maybe he knew he was about to take the D :(


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#4550160 What the flying fuck is wrong with Americans and black friday

Posted Thaya on 06 December 2015 - 05:03 PM

lloix m8

nobody even talked to you (ur quoting a response to someone else)

sit down


#4549860 What the flying fuck is wrong with Americans and black friday

Posted Slashgiggle on 06 December 2015 - 06:45 AM

Your mom is a nation of immigrants


#4544661 The "Funny Picture" thread

Posted Reliuna on 25 November 2015 - 06:29 PM

didnt even notice it was 2 different ppl replying to me

you duelists all look the same




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