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#4405612 Why don't you have a Girlfriend Junkie?

Posted ysnakewoo on 30 March 2015 - 04:19 AM

View PostFTRouslan, on 30 March 2015 - 03:23 AM, said:

Had my first hookup with a friend I met from the Harvard Facebook page who happened to be visiting South Florida (her grandparents lived like 8 mins away from me). Smart, cute, fun.

I'm not new to sex or whatever, but hooking up is pretty emotionally... conflicting? Taxing? Dunno the word. I'm not obsessed or worried, but I don't know what to really feel or expect in the future. I don't have any reference point anymore.



At least the ass was fat.

Don't overthink it. The more time you spend into convincing yourself that you're simplifying it, the more you are doing the opposite, go with the flow. If you end up getting emotionally attached, no worries, have a few sleepless nights, don't close yourself up and it doesn't matter.

It is as if though the best advice is to run from any sort of "emotional obligation", and that's not the case. Experience it and figure out how are you going to approach it in the future. Maybe getting emotionally involved (whatever that means to you) is what you really need right now (you are craving for that experience or that feeling or whatever), get involved, be happy, be sad and move on.


#4405712 Why don't you have a Girlfriend Junkie?

Posted Lloix on 30 March 2015 - 05:53 PM

View PostFTRouslan, on 30 March 2015 - 03:23 AM, said:

Had my first hookup with a friend I met from the Harvard Facebook page who happened to be visiting South Florida (her grandparents lived like 8 mins away from me). Smart, cute, fun.

I'm not new to sex or whatever, but hooking up is pretty emotionally... conflicting? Taxing? Dunno the word. I'm not obsessed or worried, but I don't know what to really feel or expect in the future. I don't have any reference point anymore.



At least the ass was fat.

As everyone said. Don't put too much investment into it. Especially if you do end up attached and hurt, getting caught up over one girl is a big waste of time. Girls this age (18-35+) really aren't that mature. And no, having huge tits does not make you magically more mature. Just keep a clear head and have fun.

Boston is literally crammed with sluts. If you don't walk around looking like a mongoloid and can actually speak to them in a non-omgspaghettieverywhere manner you're all set. I missed out on my entire sophomore year because I thought it would be a good idea to date some girl, and an even better one to get myself invested with all of her personal/family bullshit. Relationships at this age are like fat people, they don't work out.


#4405690 Why don't you have a Girlfriend Junkie?

Posted midney on 30 March 2015 - 03:38 PM

View PostFTRouslan, on 30 March 2015 - 03:23 AM, said:

Had my first hookup with a friend I met from the Harvard Facebook page who happened to be visiting South Florida (her grandparents lived like 8 mins away from me). Smart, cute, fun.

I'm not new to sex or whatever, but hooking up is pretty emotionally... conflicting? Taxing? Dunno the word. I'm not obsessed or worried, but I don't know what to really feel or expect in the future. I don't have any reference point anymore.



At least the ass was fat.

think of it this way, if you have no reference point, no clear expectation, everything can be new and exciting!! don't wanna be condescending but you're still young and "finding yourself" lots of people at your age (and my age too) aren't comfortable with themselves and crave a lot of emotional connection; any they get they cling to. like based zae said, just enjoy it for what it is. throw yourself into it with zeal. if you're goin to uni you'll get the chance for all sorts of new experiences and meeting all sorts of people. gl x


#4405098 Is there an 'ignore list' feature on the AJ forums?

Posted Breadstick on 27 March 2015 - 12:37 AM

help i'm being bullied


#4404974 I just found out about Yung Lean

Posted drugdealerx on 26 March 2015 - 03:04 PM

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for that special somebody


#4404714 [IRL] Official OT IRL Picture's

Posted Ayrasaurus on 25 March 2015 - 04:38 PM

glft 4 glongon<:

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#4404718 I just found out about Yung Lean

Posted Thaya on 25 March 2015 - 04:52 PM

View PostLloix, on 25 March 2015 - 03:32 PM, said:



I'm no audiophile, so for me things either sound good or bad, and I don't care about anyone 'bad' ruining some genre. That being said I can't wrap my head around why there's any appreciation for 'meme' hiphop that's good because it's bad. It just seems shitty to me, but I guess it's because I'm narrow minded, or can't get behind 17 year old hip hoppers. To me half of this shit looks like white kids/blisters ripping off Kid Cudi/Wiz Khalifa, who aren't really good enough to be ripped off in the first place. Maybe I'm biased toward music that has depth and can't bring myself to stomach other music that feigns it. To each their own.
as i said, you should view it as entertainment rather than music

but aight, peace


#4404756 [Music] What are you listening to?

Posted Thaya on 25 March 2015 - 07:29 PM

heres an example



fucking hiphop at its finest man


#4403450 The "Funny Picture" thread

Posted Twaenkz on 22 March 2015 - 12:39 AM

Omg pharrelle do you want people to fucking punch their walls, holy shit the cringe


#4404060 Why don't you have a Girlfriend Junkie?

Posted Zaephyr on 23 March 2015 - 03:56 PM

View PostFTRouslan, on 28 February 2015 - 09:32 PM, said:

Two weeks ago, I managed to get with a qt azn chick that I've been friends with for two years, but never made a move on (and vice versa) because I was in a relationship. Cute, 5'9", great body, with a chill, sensitive, and often lively personality. Ended up having a surprise valentines day volunteering meet-up where we connected and held hands. Two days later, we were furiously making out and I got to second base. At school, she was all over me and I got attached. My first relationship was super intimate and I felt that this would end up the same way. Our chemistry was great, and we seemed to mesh well together.

Three days ago, she became distant and broke up with me. Apparently she wanted to get to know me more as a friend, which pretty much has meant "I want you out of my life". I don't know what to even say. It's crushed my entire weekend so far. Maybe I was too overbearing. Maybe I should have been less available. Maybe we should have stayed friends and never taken that risk.

It's times like this that make me wonder if I'll ever have another relationship where I'm not constantly worrying about losing attraction from the other side. Somebody to share my dreams. Somebody to give my fullest to support. Somebody that I can do almost anything with and explore life together. My first relationship was like that, but unfortunately shit circumstances made it fall apart. And now, I don't know whether it was luck of the draw with biology/psychology or a true connection, considering that I was never able to reconcile with ex #1. Is any successful long-term relationship more than biology/psychology?

Might as well play the hook up game until that person magically comes along again, but I don't even like having sex wth random people. Fuck me, right?

I like you man, so im gonna be real.

Stop getting attached to chicks, you're what, 18? 19? who gives a fuck at that age.

Let them know straight up you're not interested in anything serious and just have some fucking fun. They appreciate that shit. Trust me.

Being too forward and too keen is probably the biggest turn off.

I know you got this my nigga.


#4404058 I just found out about Yung Lean

Posted Thaya on 23 March 2015 - 03:46 PM



sad


#4404016 I just found out about Yung Lean

Posted drugdealerx on 23 March 2015 - 02:22 PM

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sad


#4403944 I just found out about Yung Lean

Posted Thaya on 23 March 2015 - 11:51 AM

bitches come and go, BRAH

but u know i stay


#4401724 link your csgo best plays

Posted Breadstick on 18 March 2015 - 03:59 AM

View PostFTRouslan, on 17 March 2015 - 10:57 PM, said:

no A$AP Ferg

fucking garbage

fuck a trap lord i'm a dope lord


#4401292 The "Funny Picture" thread

Posted glonglon on 16 March 2015 - 10:31 PM

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