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Nisslol

Member Since 04 Feb 2011
Offline Last Active Aug 24 2016 01:19 AM
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In Topic: Which player(s) did you look up to?

14 August 2016 - 07:41 PM

Drakedog and Cherez

In Topic: smoking

14 August 2016 - 07:02 PM

View PostZaephyr, on 12 August 2016 - 11:49 PM, said:

I quit smoking the day I started vaping

#vapenation

You never striked me as someone who'd wear fedora on his mouth

In Topic: What's everyone up to these days?

12 August 2016 - 06:12 PM

View PostThaya, on 10 August 2016 - 05:25 PM, said:

i use it to buy drugs cuz of its end-to-end encryption

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Could you sort me out some krokodil

In Topic: What's everyone up to these days?

12 August 2016 - 06:10 PM

View PostThaya, on 10 August 2016 - 03:21 PM, said:

e.g. even the way you behave in this thread, is trying really hard to get "confirmation" that what you're doing is indeed a good thing, or that it at least works

like, you basically said "even if its all an illusion, it feels good, right?" earlier. you see what i mean? you're even ready to accept the "PUA is bullshit" argument just to get a confirm

that's what i tried to highlight when i asked why are you looking for confirmation

I would normally, but I think I ascended past caring, and damn it feels good, not having that inner autistic kid screaming inside and working out on clever comebacks sukablyet

In Topic: What's everyone up to these days?

09 August 2016 - 03:08 PM

View PostYVNG_CARL_YVNG, on 08 August 2016 - 12:17 PM, said:

no, it doesnt

you're being extremely fucking dense and everyone is just being nice

equating pua with getting laid is severe retardation

ayra and buglamp made the two most important points itt.

first, ayra saying that the general mentality of the pua artist is not to establish a healthy relationship, but rather to fill a (perceived) void which in actuality only exists because you are unfulfilled with your life

then, buglamp saying something about the methods... it's extremely predatorial. a whole bunch of assumptions are made, this is the basis of pua. then from those assumptions you deduce concrete advice for action.

instead of being more spontaneous, you will be reliant on advice. all pua communities are essentially big hugbox circlejerks. instead of being more natural and comfortable around women you are driving towards a relationship of inequality.

it's all bro-science, self-fulfilling prophecis and machismo bullshit. it caters to losers, oddballs, social outcasts and to the blue eyed. if you want actual good advice then just listen to ayra.

i don't 100% agree with him, but if I get the gist of it he's saying two things: in order to have a healthy relationship/sex life, you first need a healthy relationship with your self, a good amount of confidence and self-respect.

second, when you actually are an interesting person with passions and something to say, then the magic will happen on its own anyway. you don't need cheesy pick-up lines or advice, everything just comes to you naturally. that has been my experience, too. people will be drawn to you because you're a genuinely interesting person. that doesn't just go for women, just in general.

Guess there's only that many times I can explain that it's nothing to do with pick up lines, and its evolved past far that. Talk about dense.

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