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In Topic: Life fuck ups

19 December 2014 - 04:21 PM

View Poststcolbert, on 19 December 2014 - 11:58 AM, said:

Just a note about the pictures.  Any pictures I put up of her, she had already uploaded to instagram for the world to see.  So I don't think that move was that scummy.

Context still matters. Her posting it on instagram is different than posting it on a forum full of your internet bros or w/e. I'm not saying it's "relationship destruction" worthy but I could understand that upsetting her more than the other stuff.

View Poststcolbert, on 19 December 2014 - 11:58 AM, said:

I did say some questionable things.  I didn't really think of it at the time, but if I were to reverse it and my girlfriend was posting half naked pictures of herself and telling random dudes on the internet she wanted to bang them.  I would be pretty upset too.  

That's a fair way to look at it. I would assume for most dudes though it just feels like it's different(less of a serious thing) for us than them. Double standard, yeah, but men and women are different and it's more typical for guys to BS about these sort of things.

View Poststcolbert, on 19 December 2014 - 11:58 AM, said:

So that's what it basically came down to for me.  The golden rule and not wanting to hurt someone I care about, over something I really don't give that many shits about.  I could've easily continued to contribute to the board while not posting like a dick.  Maybe it wouldn't be as entertaining for you guys, but if it comes down to entertainment or my gf.  The gf is going to win every time.

Did she ask you to stop posting? Was it an ultimatum kind of deal? Or was this something you decided yourself you needed to do for her?

I understand there have to be compromises made for a relationship but it does seem a bit overly controlling if she wants you to stop posting.

I also feel like she is a bit at fault to some degree as it was kind of a privacy breach for her to search your post history. I can understand the curiosity and temptation but I personally wouldn't do this to someone.

In Topic: Life fuck ups

19 December 2014 - 09:10 AM

She's not being that crazy. He has said some questionable things and posting her pic w/out permission is a bit scummy even if he believes none of the things he's said. I would assume most of it is just playing up an admittedly crude character though.

We don't know colbert IRL(well most of us I'd assume) so it's hard to judge. This thread could be -

A: A troll
B: Colbert trying to make a point/ start some weird relationship discussion.
C: Legit
D: An attempt to win girl back even though he still believes some of the things he's done/said

I put those in order of what I'd guess is most likely(after the girlfriend posts anyway). The drama is great regardless though.

In Topic: Life fuck ups

19 December 2014 - 04:55 AM

View Poststcolbert, on 19 December 2014 - 03:28 AM, said:

"# operation save stcolbert's relationship" you've all ruined it now actually. good job. feel proud.

I genuinely tried :(

Although TBH you can't blame us if your girlfriend found your AJ account. And is seemingly using it. And you can't blame AJOT for being AJOT. Well, you can perhaps, but it's pointless.

In Topic: Life fuck ups

19 December 2014 - 03:18 AM

View Poststcolbert, on 19 December 2014 - 02:45 AM, said:

I was trying to get across the point that those aren't things to joke about when you're in a committed relationship.

Have you ever watched stand-up comedy?

Plenty of men say all kinds of weird / gross things they don't necessarily believe for humor while being in normal/ healthy relationships.

# operation save stcolbert's relationship

In Topic: Life fuck ups

19 December 2014 - 01:29 AM

i am really curious which posts she quoted back to you now though

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