For me personally, having a girlfriend would mean I made a mistake in most cases. Although I am driven to lust after women in a rather unfair and.. hormonal way, I am capable of restraining myself sufficiently to realize how few women are actually worthy of me in a relationship.
I don't mean that egotistically, I just feel like I haven't met any person that made me feel like I didn't need to meet anymore people. Too many guys find girls who are simply hot enough, and try to make the rest work. A lot of you guys are pretty young, but lives start getting real heavy towards the end of long term relationships. All the bad shit that is going to happen to you in your life is going to happen to you, most likely, because of a relationship.
Should only settle down with women that you really like, shouldn't look at having a girlfriend like it's some job that needs to be done at all times by some woman. Being independent can't be undervalued or understated. The longer you live with women, the lazier you'll become.
Hear me now, believe me later I guess. Good luck, boys.
I don't think misogyny will last through much reflection. That whole like "women fucked me over, so now I hate women" vibe is cool for awhile, I guess. I hope you grow out of it before it's too late.
oddly enough I see myself agreeing with pretty much everything you stated
as for the opening post, i've finally managed to find myself the half jap cutie i can see myself being together for a long time with