Yes, we've established that it's a subjective matter, but thank you for the further explanation. Perhaps that thread wasn't the appropriate place for a joke like that?
I don't recall voicing my personal opinion on the matter -- rather, I was expanding on the discussion as to why the post was removed.
And why wouldn't it be? Because some people are too sensitive to allow other people to make light out of a depressing situation? The tone doesn't mean anything. Everybody in the thread could agree that it was a terrible calamity. The difference is the reaction, and how those reactions are perceived.
My bad on the second part, I merely tried to use "you" metaphorically. It didn't work out well, I could have clarified that better.